The 24‑Week Boy‑Brain Blueprint

Personalised support (from me) for you and your big‑feeling boy, built from 12+ years of real work with families.

You love your boy.

You see how bright, busy, and intense he is and how much potential he has. 

You also feel worn out, on edge, and unsure what to try next.

Maybe you see things like:

  • Small "no" → huge meltdown.

  • Rough play that turns into hitting, squeezing, biting or raging.

  • Big scenes when it’s time to leave.

  • Wild at home, but quiet or shut down at kindy or school. Or wild at home and wild school.

  • Bedtime that falls apart over the smallest change.

And inside, you're thinking:

  • "Is this normal?"

  • "Is it him? Is it me?"

  • "Why does this feel so much harder than it should?"

You are not broken. Your boy is not broken.

But the usual parenting advice often doesn't fit boys like yours.

The lens I use (my 3 pillars)

For over 12 years as a paediatric social worker, I've used one core way of looking at boys and their families. It has three parts:

  1. His unique biology
    How his boy brain and body work. What he needs for movement, safety and control.

  2. His unique attachment needs
    What helps him feel close, safe and able to handle "no" and big feelings.

  3. Your own programming
    What you learned about behaviour and emotion, your stress, your story – and how all of that shows up when he explodes.

In child protection, parents did not always want me there. Many were scared, angry or closed.

Even in those hard settings, using these three pillars, we still saw big changes for boys and their homes.

Now I want to use the same framework with parents who do want help and are ready to lean in.

What this 24‑week Boy-brain Blueprint is

This is a 6‑month coaching space just for parents of big‑feeling boys (0–6), from anywhere in the world.

It's small, it's personal, and it's deep.

You get:

  • Time with me 1:1 for strategy and support.

  • A full "MRI‑style" look at your boy and your home life (in my world this is called a biopsychosocial assessment, but think of it as a clear picture of what is really going on).

  • An actionable plan based on my 3 pillars.

  • Ongoing coaching as things change.

  • Access to a private client‑only Facebook group, with live sessions held there (and nowhere else).

No big, noisy groups. No "one size fits all". And no generic course full of PDFs you won't read and video modules you won't watch. 
Just steady support, clear thinking, and simple steps that fit your boy.

How we'll look at your boy (the "MRI")

We start with a longer strategy call – ideally live on Zoom at a time that works for us both.

If time zones make live calls tricky, I have resources ready so we can still do this without meeting. We'll use:

  • Voice notes

  • DMs and emails

  • Screenshots of reports, videos, or key moments

This gives me everything I need to build your boy's BoyBrain Blueprint – a clear, custom plan based on his unique biology, attachment needs, and your family patterns.

From there, we create a clear focus for the 24 weeks ahead.

How the 24 weeks will flow

We'll move through three clear stages.

We go slowly enough that real change can settle in.

Weeks 1–8: Understand him and build core skills

We focus on:

  • Reading his signals earlier, so you see overload coming before it explodes.

  • Understanding his movement, sensory and regulation needs.

  • Putting in simple, practical strategies for things like: transitions, rough play, leaving places, and common flashpoints at home.

By the end of this stage, you should feel:

  • Less confusion ("I finally get why he does that").

  • A few key tools you can actually use.

  • A sense that meltdowns are a bit less wild, or easier to come down from.

Weeks 9–16: Understand you and your patterns

Here we turn the lens to you – gently and without blame.

We explore:

  • What you were taught about behaviour and "good kids".

  • What sets off your own alarm bells and why.

  • How your stress, past experiences and beliefs show up in the hard moments.

We then:

  • Help you notice your own body cues.

  • Find responses that line up with your values and with your boy's needs.

By the end of this stage, you should feel:

  • Less shame and "I'm a bad mum/dad".

  • More choice in the heat of the moment.

  • Clearer on which battles matter and which you can let go.

Weeks 17–24: Bring it all together

In the last third, we:

  • Blend what you've learned about his biology and attachment with what you know now about your own programming.

  • Tidy up tricky spots that still feel hard (for example: school issues, siblings, sleep changes, co‑parenting differences).

  • Celebrate the wins, even the small ones, so you can see how far you've come.

By the end of this stage, many families notice:

  • Meltdowns are shorter and less scary.

  • Home feels calmer, not like walking on eggshells all day.

  • Your boy seems more settled because he feels understood and supported.

  • You feel steadier, even when things are not perfect.

Support between calls

You will also have:

  • A private Facebook group only for current clients.

    • This is the only place I'll be going live.

    • It's where you can ask questions, share wins, and feel less alone.

It's a quiet, contained space. Not another loud, busy group to get lost in.

Who this is for (and not for)

This is for you if:

  • You have a boy (roughly 0–6) with big feelings, big energy, or big sensitivity.

  • You are ready to look at both his needs and your own patterns.

  • You want help that is gentle, honest and grounded in real‑world work, not quick hacks.

  • You are willing to show up, try things, and stay with it for the full 24 weeks.

This is not for you if:

  • You want a quick fix in 2 weeks.

  • You are not open to looking at your own responses.

  • You are not able to give time and money to this right now.

This will be an investment.

It will ask your time, your energy, and your attention.

It is for people who are ready to do the work.

Investment and places available

To keep this careful and high‑quality, I'm only taking on 12 clients total for the next 24 weeks.

Investment options:

  • $12,000 paid in full.

  • OR $13,000 total paid as:

    • $4,000 upfront (includes your first strategy call)

    • Then 6 payments of $1,500 every 4 weeks.

Once those 12 places are filled, I won't open more until this round finishes.

To be considered

  1. Enter your name and email below

  2. Check your inbox for an email from me with 8 short questions.

  3. Reply to those questions.

Your answers help me see:

  • If this is the right fit for you right now.

  • What your boy and family need most.

If you read this and think, "This is exactly my boy, and exactly how I feel,"then you are who I had in mind when I created this.